Or not. They love going to ballet. Love it. But some days (like, you know, every day) Fox refuses to do anything unless it is his idea. When I suggest he gets dressed he refuses. When I suggest he wear his underpants, not his nappy, he refuses (even though he hates nappies). When I suggest he put his shoes on he refuses. And when we are finally out the door and halfway to ballet he decides that he has changed his mind, turns around, and starts walking home. Just to make sure I know it’s entirely his decision.